Stress and Anxiety

We live in a society where great demands and responsibilities are placed on us. Today, about one in seven people are suffering from stress or anxiety at any one time in the UK (diagnosed cases). And while some people manage, more and more people are showing signs of over-anxiety, which leads to stress, which can make a significant impact on the quality of life and wellbeing.

You may be one of those people but are now ready to explore ways of freeing yourself from anxiety and living a fulfilled and happy life, free to do things that bring you joy,

Anxiety and stress can manifest itself differently for everyone but common physical signs of anxiety or stress are :

  • Racing heartbeat
  • Shortness of breath
  • Chest tightness
  • Dry mouth
  • Butterflies in stomach
  • Nausea
  • Urge to pass urine/empty bowels
  • Tremors
  • Sweating
  • Panic attacks
  • Insomnia

Common psychological signs of stress and anxiety are:

  • Inner tension
  • Agitation
  • Fear of losing control
  • Irrational dread that something catastrophic is going to happen (such as blackout, seizure, heart attack or death)
  • Irritability
  • Feelings of detachment
  • Phobias and fears

It could be an event that is causing your anxiety, such as:

  • Exams
  • Interviews
  • Speeches and presentations for work or occasions
  • Flying
  • Sports competitions

Anxiety can also manifest itself in different worries; it may be fear of being around other people, it may be anxiety in specific social situations, anxiety in your relationships with particular people at home, at school or at work.

Anxiety is a fear or concern that is exaggerated, and is out of proportion to the situation, although sometimes it may not feel like this. The symptoms of anxiety correlate with the stress response or “fight-or-flight”. This is primal response that protects you against threats in your environment, so if danger is present your body triggers a rush of blood to your arms and legs so that you can fight or run away. It is an adrenaline response that causes your heart to beat faster, pumping oxygen around your body to those parts that need it to protect you. You may feel as if you are on high alert as well, unable to calm down or relax, your mind may race unable to focus or quieten down.

It is a normal part of the human protection system to experience this fight-or-flight response, but only when there is real and present danger. To experience prolonged flight-or-flight creates feelings of anxiety. It is often rooted in a previous experience that triggered fear or in a general anxiety and worry about your situation at home or at work. There can also be anxiety without knowing what is causing it, a general feeling of anxiety known as “free floating” anxiety.

So why is it important to reduce anxiety in your life? What difference will it make to you? Research shows that prolonged exposure to cortisol and other stress related hormones can cause:

  • Memory problems
  • Weakened immune system
  • Weaker bones
  • Increased blood pressure
  • Reduce fertility

How I can help you?

As a Psychotherapist and Life Coach I can help assess anxiety and identifying the root of your stress or anxiety, whether it is a situation, a physical issue, a past experience or a relationship.

We will discuss your goal(s), asking how you wish to feel, how you would like to be, and things that you would chose to do in your life if you were free of stress/anxiety. I will then work with you to reach your goals using a range of different techniques, BWRT in particular is proving to be the prefered therapy of choice for several of my clients BWRT. However, depending on your individual needs, a selection of alternative therapies will always be considered.

After the required number of sessions you may feel more confident; more relaxed in situations that have previously challenged you. Many people say that they are calmer and that they have more clarity of thought – able to make decisions more easily.

People who have experienced side effects of anxiety such as insomnia, find that they are sleeping much better and as a result are able to work more effectively.

It is as if therapy unlocks the potential you have to break free of negative thought patterns, and to react more positively and more confidently to situations in your life that may have previously made you anxious.

How many sessions will I need?

I will discuss with you the amount of sessions needed but it may be around 1-2 with BWRT or around 6 sessions with Hypnotherapy.

Corporate Stress Reduction Programmes

I offer group sessions to businesses to enhance their employee stress reduction schemes. It is worth talking to your employer to see if this is a possibility.

Stress is one of the major reasons people take time off work, and investing in stress reduction schemes companies can increase productivity, happiness and subsequently loyalty in their employees. Group Session Packages